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Hi guys, I’m back!

Okay, see. I was thinking about something since 6 and I’m just so upset about it. Ugh. I wish I could just delete it from my mind like I deleted my tweet or my ugly selcas. Lol. Okay anyway, let me tell you what.

Well, I was going to this mall. Then I ran into my guy bestie, Di. He’s one nice person but he also think of his bestfriends more than himself. Sometimes, not all the time though. Then we talked for a while, he’s asking how am I doing right now, how’s my work, are you single, do you have a new boyfriend? And that’s when it all started.

“Nothing. I’m asking you all these cause actually S still put his hopes on you.”

I’m like, “A-hah. Nope. I’m not going back.” Like WTF?! Do you fuckin’ remember who ditched who first, S? I’m in the middle of my work when you said I’m not a good girlfriend. So what, you think I care about you anymore? NO. Definitely a BIG NO. See, I’m not gonna bash on this one guy cause it’s pointless. It’s like I’m an idiot talking about something that hurts me all the time. But not anymore, it’s not hurting me anymore.

In fact, I became one strong, young woman now (I guess, lol.) Well my point is, never in my life will I ever let a guy hurt me anymore. Don’t even think about bitching around with me, you mess with me once, oh boy, you’re getting the hell out.

This “S” guy that I’m talking about, I still remembered when he always told me like he loves me, going all lovey dovey on me. Oh God, still, I was a stupid, immature girl before. So I thought love life is wonderful. Don’t get me wrong though, love life is wonderful, IF you two love each other no matter what happens, you two accepted each others flaws and all. But my love story sucks, to be honest.

I always thought he loves me before but after I broke up with him, I realized what I’ve been through with him in that relationship was just some serious, deep shit. He always asked me to change, like hey I like you “BETTER” if you wear dress when we’re going out. I mean like what was “BETTER” supposed to mean? What, you don’t like me for me? Fuck. Like I said before, I was in some serious deep shit and I was too stupid in love to think through about all these. Now that I’m single and I probably have all the time in the world to think about these, I was like, I’m an idiot to have hold onto this relationshit.

So my advice to all you girls, if you feel that you can’t work out your relationship with a guy after a certain period of time, you better just let go, girl. There’s nothing in there for you. If he’s the type of guy who wants you to change the way you look, the way you dress, the way you talk, tell him, NO. If he wants you to change, it just means that he only love the girl he created out of you. So, if he say “Let’s break up then.” just because of your NO, just let go and MOVE ON, babe. You deserved someone who loves you for who you are.

Anyway, who needs a boyfriend when you’re still young and living a free life? Just go and drool over some hot guys at your teenage years (Lol, jk. Go and do whatever you love, okay?), live life to the fullest. Spend some QT with your beloved Mom & Dad, brothers or sisters, girlfriends, boyfriends, whoever loves you for who you are, flaws and all. Besides, you’ll never know what tomorrow bring so be with them. It’s much more meaningful and a much sweeter memories to me.

Don’t worry about love life, like seriously. “If you love someone, let them go.” Somehow, I think this quote is so true. If he’s your true love, both of you will eventually find your way back to each other. I’m pretty sure there are tons of hot guys out there that would stand in line, waiting to date you. :)

Well, I guess I have to stop, I always talk too much, I should probably just make a video, lol. Oh and one more thing, I may be too young to give advice but one thing for sure, it’s something I went through and I know what I said is somehow true.

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Hey there, it’s been a long time since I’ve blog. (Really? Not really sure either. -.-“)

Whatever. What matters for now is I’m back again with a new topic.

GOING BACK TO SINGLE DOESN’T MEAN THE END OF THE WORLD.

To begin with, let me share some of my experience as I see how these going-back-to-single people reacted sometimes. (Well I’m not complaining/bashing on all singles out there, I’m just saying some of you are as what I thought. :))

1. They can be pretty ANNOYING. Starting to go off like; “Nooooo, why would he left me? Is it because he thinks I don’t care about him anymore? Or did he found someone prettier than me? Nooooo, if this is the way its supposed to be, I don’t wanna live anymoreeeeee…”
2. They can also be very, very DRAMATIC - *cries~~* “Can you lend me those tissue box, please?” “It’s empty already, my dear.” “Well, go get me another one!” *shocked* “Okay, okay. I’m gettin’ there.” *SMH…*
3. They getting more SENSITIVE than ever - GUY FRIEND: Aww look, she’s all alone now. Do you want me to keep you company? SINGLES: *grab a glass of water, splash it on his face* That’s what you get for teasing me, you’re not a good friend!”

That were some examples of reaction that most singles would give like, I mean, C’MON! Isn’t it great to be single? And if you’re still young, then what the heck! Go with it, live your life, love your life! Being single doesn’t mean you’re not good enough for that person, it just means that he’s not for you or maybe the other way around. God is probably still too busy writing down the best climax, ending & plots for your LOVE story! So just relax girls!

Well, yes. You can cry as much as you want but not dramatically. Not by telling the whole wide world that your no-matter-how-long-relationship to everyone else out there. Trust me, people will be annoyed with it! I’m not saying you can’t share your story, just keep it cool, you know? If you’re really upset and down, tell it to someone who you can trust. Someone who will listen to your problem. Someone who will be there for you no matter what. (And I don’t mean a new boyfriend!)

Who I meant was, a true friend and by “true friend”, it doesn’t have to be a best girlfriend/boyfriend. You can tell/share about anything to um, your parents for example. Sure, parents can be very unreasonable sometimes. They’ll yell at you but they’re your parents and will always be your parents. You can tell it to either one of them. Trust me, it does make you feel better. Probably cause they’re older and they had experiences before so they know how to deal with it. (You can also tell this kinda problems to your older brother/sisters, even to younger siblings which is around their teenage years if you had any. Ya, they won’t help much but sharing this kinda story, you know for good, they’ve learn something from you and not to repeat it in the near future.)

Sometimes, after couples break-up, they tend to think like, “GUYS ARE ALL THE SAME!” Seriously? SNAP OUT OF IT! Not all of them are the same, like I’ve said before, you just haven’t found the right one so don’t go and bash every guy you meet after a bad relationship with just one guy.

One last thing, life doesn’t always go as planned. Just be strong and don’t let anything tear you down. Things happened for some reasons. Learn from mistakes and share it with anyone that you care about. Anyone that you don’t wanna see get hurt just like you did. Even if you learned from your mistakes, chances are you’ll probably repeat it so don’t be too hard on yourself. You just gotta enjoy life while there are still time. :)

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